What is your Ego

This is a book of self-discovery. It offers valuable insights to accommodate the passion and eagerness of those who want to make a quantum leap into a new set of discoveries. The author has mapped out a blueprint on the structure of the personality and the Ten Categories of Ego-Complexes. This is a breakthrough development that goes beyond what Sigmund Freud postulated over a hundred years ago. This moves us one step closer to detecting the mindset of individuals as they use the ego’s complexes to accomplish their agendas. It uncovers the Six Different Facets to the Self which answers to the mystery of why we tend to have different personalities in different situations. It also contains a set of parenting styles adopted by parents based on their ego’s complexes. This often results in poor parenting which, in turn, causes a lot of heartache and mental/emotional confusion for their children. Lastly, the author has constructed Five Main Attractions to uncover the reasons why couples fall in love with each other. It is to detect the impure hearts of those we love and how to distinguish the ego’s intention versus the soul intention.

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Chapter 1
New Psychology
The Essence of Psychology
Human Thought Process Is Universal
The Mind Is the Commander of the Brain
Our Mind Works Like a Computer

Chapter 2
Structure of the Personality: Ego, Self, and Soul
Interplay Between Ego, Self, and the Soul
The Struggles between the Ego-, Self-, and Soul-States

Chapter 3
Six Facets of the SELF
Introduction
(1) Public Self
(2) Animal Self
(3) Ideal Self
(4) Character Self
(5) Personal Self
(6) True Self

Chapter 4
Ten Ego’s Personality Types
Ego’s Evil Twin
Ego’s Desire Has Three Stages
Ego’s Defensive Mind
Ego’s Ten Complexes
(1) Superior Attitude
(2) Dismissal Attitude
(3) Self-Absorbed Attitude
(4) Envious Attitude
(5) Rebellious Attitude
(6) Devious Attitude
(7) Indifferent Attitude
(8) Simplistic Attitude
(9) Vicarious Attitude
(10) Self-Destructive Attitude: Five Types

Chapter 5
Parents’ Imperfections
The Family Circle
The Tunnel Experience
Ineffective Parenting Styles
(1) Favoring Parents
(2) Distancing Parents
(3) Jealous Parents
(4) Shadowing Parents
(5) Protective Parents
(6) Commanding Parents
(7) Almighty Parents
(8) Permissive Parents

Chapter 6
True Love vs. Illusionary Love
The Art of Falling in Love
Three Major Defaults When Falling in Love
Falling Out of Love, Is It Possible?
Five Main Attractions
(1) Admiration
(2) Opposite Attraction
(3) Compatibility
(4) Accessibility
(5) Compassion

Chapter 7
Is Our Personality Deep-Seated?
Is Our Personality Deep-Seated? Can It Be Changed?
A Bully Named Mike
Be As Free Flowing As Water